Millions of people talk about the love of Laila and Majnu and it is all because Laila used to reside in Majnu’s eyes all the time. It is a different thing that what was Laila’s complexion. It is a different thing whether she was obese or had a short height.
However Laila had a very dark complexion and if we compare on the standards of beauty for a woman, she was a lean and dark complexioned woman….however for Majnu she was everything, she was his God, she was his Khuda, she was his Paigambar, she was the meaning of life for him, she was the essence of his life and this was because he has tasted the joy of love, he didn’t evaluate Laila on her color of beauty.
Lovers don’t see body, lovers don’t think about the completeness of life or about taking life to a greater height. Love is done by heart where a person submerges oneself in the ocean of love. One day the king of that nation called Majnu and told all his beautiful maid servants to stand outside of his palace, each and every maid servant was perfect on the standards of beauty. When Majnu arrived, the king said to him, “You are bringing disgrace to our nation. All your clothes are torn, you bear several bruises on your body created by the stones which people threw upon you, people have tortured you and you are still shouting Laila-Laila. You are bringing disgrace to us. Here are these ten-twelve beautiful maids in front of you, choose any one and get married.
Majnu looked at everyone for a moment, he looked deep into the eyes of every maid, then looked at the king and started laughing. The king asked, “What happened? Why are you laughing?” Majnu replied, “Which one is Laila among them? None of them is Laila, all are nothing but dummies of clay. I love Laila and I don’t love anyone of them….Laila is everything for me.” The king asked angrily, “What’s so special about Laila, who is this Laila?” “The day you will look from the eyes of Majnu, you will realize what’s so special about Laila. You look from my eyes what is Laila…she is a fragrance….she is freshness…she is a flower.”, replied Majnu.
Majnu’s eyes were seeing everything in her and even Laila was eager to fully submerge herself in this ocean of love, she had already merged herself in this ocean. Even though there were several shackles of the society tied in her feet, still when she heard that Majnu is going to be thrown out of the kingdom for not obeying king’s order, she got troubled, she couldn’t stop herself, she couldn’t tolerate this fact that she would not be able to see Majnu….how would she even imagine to live without him, what would be the essence of my life? What would be the significance of such a life? It is all because there can’t be any distances in love, people can’t get separated in love, shackles of society can’t stop them.
And she quickly ran towards that path from which Manjnu was to be expelled out from the kingdom. Laila hide herself behind the bark of a tree such that she could see Majnu yet no one could watch her. All she wanted was to just see Majnu as much as she can.
– And Majnu crossed that tree.
– She stood behind that tree, hiding herself.
– She didn’t move for even a single moment.
– She didn’t even blink her eyes and just gazed on Majnu.
– She just kept on drinking that sweetness from the glasses of her eyes.
– She tried to collect all the images of Majnu in her eyes.
Majnu didn’t have any other choice but to leave the kingdom, yet the only name existed on his lips was that of Laila, still there was no option left for him as he was bound to leave the kingdom as per the king’s orders. An year passed away, two years passed away and by that time the king died.
Majnu then came back into the kingdom following the same path. He inquired about Laila with the people, “Where is Laila?” Someone told him, “We saw Laila standing behind that tree while you were leaving the kingdom. We haven’t seen her after that.” Majnu ran towards that path and reached to the tree…and what he saw left him dumb stuck. He found that Laila’s skin, her muscles and the bark of that tree had completely got unified together….she got stuck with the bark….she completely got unified with the tree. Yet a dream was flowing in her eyes and that was of meeting Majnu, her eyes have become like stones, she was dead long time back….and when Majnu looked into her eyes, he saw his own image in those eyes.
And due to this reason I say that there is no explanation of love, due to this reason I say that all the shackles of society can’t stop the person in love, due to this reason I say that where there is love, nothing else can exist there, its just a matter of jumping, it is the act to getting completely immersed in oneself. It is possible that people might spread rumors about you, they might taunt you and it is all because people can’t understand that fragrance of love. All that people have seen is lust, all that people have seen is the female body, Soor saw that female body and his lust came out in the form of his songs, other saints, yogis too saw that female body and their lust emerged out in the form of devotion and it is a fact that lust will come out in one form or other.
There is no explanation about love, there is no thought process in love. Love is a feeling, it is a joy, it is a process of giving completeness to life, it is a method to get satisfaction in life and this satisfaction is completeness of life, this satisfaction is “Sadhana”, it is “greatness”, it is becoming a “disciple”, and this completeness is the essence of being a “Guru”. And due to this reason – – Love between a Guru and a disciple is similar to the love between air and fragrance.
– Love between a Guru and a disciple is similar to the love between earth and the rainfall.
It is because there can’t be anything significant left on earth if there is no rainfall. The earth becomes fragrant just after the first few drops of rainfall, it starts to become content…and when a disciple is able to get these drops from a true Guru, then a special fragrance starts to emit from his body, he starts to jump and dance in joy, his body starts to enjoy every beat of life, he gets completely filled with energy similar to a wind.
Due to this reason only I say that, “I am a fragrant breeze and I am eager to embrace you, I am eager to amalgamate you within my body, soul and my life. However, what is even more important is that I must fill myself in your chest and within your life…and for this you will have to energize your heart, you will have to eradicate that lust from your heart.” There is no husband, wife, relatives in your life….there is nothing else because all these relations are related to body.
The day your wrinkles will start appearing on your face, the day when spots will start to appear upon your body, the day your hair will become white, these people will stop supporting you, they will step back. If you will look into a mirror, then you will find that your face has become frightening, you will feel fed up of your life. You will be frustrated, your face will turn grin because you would have not learnt the art of love in life, you would have not loved anyone, you would have not learnt the essence of love, you would have not felt yourself, you would have not convinced yourself, because the seed of love didn’t germinate within your heart and till the time the seed of love didn’t germinate in the heart, the journey of life can’t begin. Love is the first and last stoppage in the journey called life.
I am starting you from this first stoppage and leading you towards the path of eternal bliss. I am explaining you that love is the essence of life, love is the meditation in life, love is Sadhana, love is completeness, love is thought process because it can grant smile on your face, it can grant completeness, love can give the philosophy of life, love can bring satisfaction in life. I am presenting a new philosophy before you, I also want to tell you that this path is not that simple, it is the most difficult trail of life because, Prem Ko Pantha Kathoor Karaala, Talavaar Ki Dhaar Pe Dhaavano Hai. i.e. the path of love is very difficult, the feet gets hurt while traveling on the sword, the complete body gets filled with wounds, and these wounds are the blessings of life because the bliss of life is the presence of love in life, it is not present in that family, it is not present in that bodily pleasures, it is not present in the lust, it is not present in what all you consider as pleasures of life. It is just an illusion, an imagination.
If you wish to witness the completeness of life, see the eternal bliss of life, understand the aspect of life, understand the philosophy of life and if I put into correct words that if you wish to amalgamate Guru within your soul, then you will have to learn the first lesson of love which is to abolish yourself, to make yourself wounded by this sword called love and I am knowingly pushing you to travel on this sharp edge of this sword, I am knowingly leading you towards this path called love and it is very dangerous…dangerous because hundreds of things can happen while traveling on this path.
Hundreds of things were talked about Lord Krishna, He was accused of hundreds of things, people spoke lots of bad things about Him, many sages who took birth after Him too talked like this about Him, many yogis did the same and even the gopis, gopis and the head of the village of His time too used bad words towards Him. However Krishna knew that what all have been imagined till now is just an illusion. This thought process has become dirty just like the stagnant water present within a pond becomes dirty. Krishna observed that people just sit at one place and meditate, He found that people just close their eyes in order to attain greatness in life, there was no smile on the faces of these people, there was no satisfaction on the faces of these people. Krishna chose completely different path which was the correct one. That path was the path of Sam Veda, that path was the path of Yajur Veda, that path was the path of Rig Veda and that path was the path of Atharva Veda.
If I give you the essence of all the four Vedas, if I give you the knowledge of all the four Vedas then it comes out to be, “Love is the beginning of life and love is the end of life.” And if we don’t understand the correct meaning of love, then this life will be left with nothing else but a dried stick.
This is your current life, this is the life which you are leading right now, this is the life which you are currently living. This is not life, this life must be full of energy, fun and love in each and every moment. There is a feeling in love that someone is mine, and this is a very big thing, someone resides within my eyes, someone remembers me…there can’t be anything greater than this in life.
Due to this reason only I say that a man can’t love in life. A man can’t understand that language of love, a man can’t understand that completeness of life. Love can only be done by wife, a lady, a feminine because she knows the process to jump into fire, she knows the method to completely lose her identity. She doesn’t think about what people will talk about me or people will stop me. She doesn’t think about these things. This society can’t harm a lady once she puts her steps on this path, society can abuse her, however she doesn’t pay any attention to what people talk about her and ignores their comments.
Once a beloved was going to meet her lover. Her lover told her that I will meet you at the following place sharp at twelve o’clock and just three minutes were remaining to strike twelve o’clock. Mother and father were keeping an eye on the daughter, however there was just the image of the lover in the eyes of that lady. There was no other philosophy, thought process or anything else in her eyes. Her only aim was to meet the lover and she escaped from the eyes of her parents and swiftly departed towards that place.
It was noon time and Akbar was sitting on a sheet on earth. The time to perform namaz was approaching, he used to perform this ritual five times daily. He bent on his knees and started to meditate on Allah, when suddenly that beloved who was walking very quickly put one of her feet on the mat and crossed Akbar. Akbar got highly enraged. He thought, “What a shameful lady she is! She is extremely fool and ill mannered. Didn’t she see that I am praying to God? Didn’t she see this mat lying on the ground? Didn’t she know that the emperor of Hindustan is sitting here and praying to lord?”
He felt extremely bad. One minute passed, two minute passed and after few minutes that lady again came back. Now there was no hurry in her movements. Now she was not rushing towards anything. She was walking like a slowly flowing river, singing silently within her mouth, and when she came near the mat, she carefully watched her feet and diverted herself away from the mat.
However, at that very moment, Akbar caught her by her hand and shouted at her.“You foolish lady! Aren’t you ashamed of yourself? I was praying to God, this mat was spread here, I was remembering Allah and you stepped onto the mat!”
The lady replied smilingly, “I didn’t see you sitting on this mat, I didn’t feel it at that time because the image of my lover was there in my eyes, my goal was my lover…..however you were remembering God. If your attention was all upon the God, then how could you see me crossing and putting my feet on this mat? You were looking at me all the time, your attention was upon me, you were fooling around, you were just pretending to pray to the God, however my entire attention was upon my lover and due to this reason I didn’t see anything else, due to this reason I didn’t see your mat. I just had one desire that I have to reach my destination on time to meet my lover and attain satisfaction in life.”
This process, this feeling, is the goal of love, there is no lust in this process, this is praying to Allah, this is mediation on the form of God, this is termed as Sadhana, this is said as getting a glimpse of your beloved God…because she knows the process to walk quickly towards her goal and to amalgamate within her lover or God in life. There lies no mats before her, there lies no king before her, there lies no bounds before her, there remains no relations for her.
And due to this reason only I say that only a lady can love in life. The moment the feeling of a lady emerges from the heart of a man, at that very moment the heart of that man starts to get transformed into the heart of a lady. A man’s entire body is fully controlled by mind, he walks by means of his brain, he progresses by means of his brain. However, a woman’s entire body is controlled by her heart, she is controlled by her emotions, she progresses by means of her heart. And even if a man loves, then he loves in small pieces maintaining all the entries. A lady can’t do like this, she surrenders herself in her very first attempt, she finishes her identity in the very first attempt, she completely destroys her identity.
I wish you all that may your heart becomes fully energized, may your heart become as pious as that of lady, may you be able to get blessed with love in this very life. May all be placed in the likes of Radhan, Kabir, Rahim one day. May you all get soaked in true love in your life. May you all have that deep inclination, that deep desire, that deep love for your Guru in your heart. I trust upon all you people and I bless you once again from the depth of my heart.
– SadGuruDev KailashChandra Shrimali Ji
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