Dirghovatam Prem Vatanta Neeram,
Masyam Vataam Vai Paripoornrupam.
Chittam Vatai Purva Madaiva Nityam, Hridyam
Vataiva Paripoorna Madaiva Rupam.
If there exists an island anywhere in the entire life which is like an ocean, if there is anything which is attainable in life, if there is anything like consciousness of life, then it is love. Life is just like a dark jungle if there is no love in it. Joy doesn’t exist in such a life, there is nothing to be obtained in such a life and due to this reason, I am saying that,
Love is the meaning of life.
Love is the essence of life
Love is the main aim of life
And when I speak out the word love here, then it is the relationship between the God and the devotee, this is the relationship between two hearts, it is not the relationship between two bodies, it is the relationship between two souls, there is no lust in this relationship, there is no shortcoming in this relationship, there is nothing to feel offended of in this relationship and there is no flaw in this relationship. There exists no other means to attain God, one can attain divine powers by means of mantra chanting or by performing Sadhanas, one can dive very deep within oneself by the help of meditation but God can only be attained by means of love. One has to germinate the seed of love within one’s heart, within one’s body. One can get a glimpse of God only by means of love, one can establish God in one’s heart only by means of love.
This relationship not just holds true for God and devotee, but is equally applicable in the case of a Guru and disciple. If a disciple wishes to establish the Guru in one’s heart, wishes to attain Guru in the life, wishes to amalgamate within the Guru but if the river of love doesn’t flow in the heart of such a disciple, then that disciple can never attain Guru in life. He can see that this person is Guru, he can guess that this person is Guru, but the method to establish the Guru in each and every pore of body, the method to completely get amalgamated in Guru is possible only by means of love.
Due to this reason, I am expressing my words by means of love because a lot of person ask this question, “Is love real?” And I say that love exists in each and every individual, there is no need to borrow love in life, there is no need to ask about love with others and love is the thought process of life. As this body consists of flesh, skin, heart, hands and legs, eyes, nose etc, in the same way our body also has love within itself, the only requirement is that you allow it to germinate in your heart. What is important is that you take proper care of it, you give it proper nourishment, you give it proper air and conducive environment. What is necessary is to safeguard this plant, what is necessary is to give support to this plant and help it grow. If the seed of love doesn’t germinate in our life, if we fail to understand the importance of love in life then there can’t be any joy left in the life. This life is equivalent to a dead desert because those who have been blessed to taste the joy of love, only they can understand what is meant by joy in life, what is meant by completeness of life, what is meant by greatness of life.
And due to this reason our ancestors, our Sadhaks, our yogis, our Vedas and Upanishads mentioned this philosophy – They considered the devotee as a female. They considered themselves as female and God as the complete male and then created this love relationship. At every place, the devotee considers himself as a lady because only a lady know the correct way to love. The essence of love exists in a lady, she can understand that pain. A man can only do mathematics, a man’s mind has greater control over him than the heart whereas a lady never allows the brain to win over her. Only a lady can completely offer herself in love, only she can completely destroy her existence, only she can completely get amalgamated in her lover. This is the true trait of a woman.
And if we talk about any yogi or saint….whenever they tried to attain God in life, they considered themselves as lady only. It is not required to wear the clothes of a lady, it is not necessary to apply lipstick, powder or cream while considering oneself as a lady. Motive behind considering oneself as a lady is to energize the heart because energizing the heart means generating love.
Our mind has completely overpowered our heart and this is transforming the life into a desert. Till the time there is no joy in life, there is no love in life, there is no sweetness in life, there is no thought of love in life, till the time we don’t immerse ourselves in someone’s thought, till the time someone doesn’t exist in our eyes, till the time there is no consciousness in life, till the time our lover doesn’t remain in our eyes, we can’t meditate till that point, we can’t get lost in someone’s thought, we can’t detach ourselves from this world and till that time we can’t destroy our identity.
It is fortunate to be a female in life, femaleness is a blessing of life, because the best creation can only be done by a female. There is no beautiful creation than a man in this world and it is only a woman who can give birth to a man. A woman is blessed with two specialties, if we try to understand the essence of a woman then these two aspects comes out clearly – First, she can tolerate immense pain in life and she proves it by giving birth to the child. This is a highly painful process. Only a woman can withstand this pain, a man can’t tolerate this pain. And thus woman are more powerful than man from this aspect because a man can’t tolerate such a pain.
To overpower woman, the man tries to cross rivers, he jumps deep into sea, he flies in the air, he takes risks in life. He does all this just to prove that he possess the same power as that of a woman, he can tolerate the pain too, he can also suffer in life. However, all this is just an attempt to overpower the woman and still the man can’t understand that enormous pain, that suffering which a woman goes through while giving birth to a child.
The second thing is that only a woman knows how to love someone. It is because she can completely immerse within herself. The greatest thing out here is that love can’t be expressed by mathematics, it can’t be done by maintaining a balance sheet. Love is like jumping within a sea, it is not the process to save oneself. Love is the process to completely forget oneself. And a man can never forget his identity. He can’t jump properly, because his mind is more energized and has greater control over him. On the other hand, a woman’s heart is more energized and thus her heart has greater control over her. And due to this reason only, the devotees have been able to appease the God by considering themselves as a woman. If you wish to get a glimpse of the God, if you want to dance before that Lord, if you want to assimilate the God into your eyes then that is possible only by transforming one’s heart into that of a woman.
A man always thinks partly by his mind and partly by his heart. For one moment he thinks that this is right or wrong, whether he should do it or not, it would be right to do it or not, what people will think about him if he do this and so on. Mind thinks about all this and if a man thinks like this then he can’t love someone, he can just enact to love, he can fool others, he can deceive others. A woman will love completely if she is in love and due to this reason, both these aspects of life are present within a woman. Bearing unbearable pain is the basis of love because there exists nothing else but pain in remaining far away from the lover. The lover just shows off for a moment and then disappears.
As said –
Aankhadiyaan Jhaani Padi,
Pantha Nihaari Nihaari,
Jibhardlyaa Chaala Pardyaa,
Ram Pukari Pukari.
Blisters have grown over my fingers counting the number of days whether he will come today or will come tomorrow, my vision has blurred awaiting for him. I always have this instinct that Krishna may come and meet me at any moment. If I blink my eyes even for a second and He comes just for that moment when I blinked my eye, then what will happen? Mira is saying that her eyesight has become blurred, yet she just has only one thought process that Krishna can come to meet her at any time and she will wait for His arrival….can someone bear this much pain in life?
A man can’t tolerate this much pain in life, he can wait for one day or two days or four days and then he turns around in life whereas a woman don’t do it. She completely ruins her identity, she gets dissolved waiting for her lover, she completely forgets about herself. This pain, this torture, this condition is similar to giving birth to a beautiful child, this much of pain can only be handled by a woman…..and due to this reason I say that only a woman can love with completeness, only a woman can completely assimilate in her lover.
Even a disciple can attain Guru by becoming a lady, he can gain consciousness by energizing his heart, to completely immerse himself in the thought that I want to completely assimilate myself into my Guru, not only in my life but into my soul, into my each and every pore, into each and every drop of blood. A man can’t do it, he says he has hundreds of issues in life, I do love Guru, I do love God, I want to assimilate God within myself, but there are hundreds of other problems in my life too. On the other hand, there is no problem in front of a woman, she will either not travel on that path or she will completely immerse herself on that path, she will completely put herself onto that path.
Due to this reason only I say that you can’t borrow love in life, love doesn’t sell in market, love can’t be brought from somewhere. Love comes out from the heart, what is important is to germinate the love from that seed which exists deep within everyone’s heart. What is necessary is to understand the essence of love in life. Water is nothing new for the fish, a fish takes birth in water and dies within the water. Water is nothing unknown for it. Similarly God is not unknown to you, because you are a part of that Lord, you have taken birth from that Lord, God exists within you, but what is important is that you must identify the God within and for that you will have to energize your heart.
– SadGurudev Shri Kailash ChandrShrimali Ji
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