This is not necessary that something significant may occur in your life because every other thing can happen – you can become rich, famous and prosperous or any other thing but you might not attain the true love in your life.
Kabira Preman Ka Kahun, Prem Na
Haat Bikaaya, Prem Gali Ati Saankari,
Taame Dou Na Samaaya.
Kabir Das says that what should I speak about love? Love can’t be explained in words. Those person, those men and those women are useless who don’t have an aim in their life, who never loved someone in life, who didn’t understand love, who didn’t understand the meaning of love. These people are just like a man traveling in a desert who does not know where he is heading towards. Every single moment of life is wasted just like that and not for a single moment we think about the aim of our life.
And Kabir is saying that the street of love is so narrow that two person can’t enter into it. Only a single lover can get into it, apart from that, even no other thought can enter into the mind, it is just he who came and entered into my life. He entered into the narrow street of my heart and now I have to completely destroy my identity because this street is so narrow that two person can’t enter into it. It is not possible that both of us can stay in this street.
The moment the curtains will be removed, the whole room will be illuminated. Till the time this curtains are there, there was sorrow, pain and misery in my life. Sometimes I used to cry and sometimes I smiled. I used to chant mantras in the Sadhanas for five years, twenty years and reciting it all the time I have lost the essence of this mantra. This is because we couldn’t obtain the peace, the joy that is essential for life.
Sitting with closed eyes in Padmasana can’t provide success in Sadhanas. For attaining success in Sadhanas you need a heart, a blossomed flower, a lotus on which the bee can sing the song. There should be a fragrance which can be filled in your heart, in your life and if there is no bee then the blossom of flowers is useless. And similarly if your life is without love, then your journey is just like a man traveling in desert who doesn’t get any shades in his life. This life is then spent in an isolation called death and the act of removing the curtains is called as Brahma Sakshatkar (witnessing the Brahma).
Virhin Rove Prem So, Ghoongat Ki Patt
Odh, Jaame Chaaha Na Chaahati
Bhoor Bhayo Us Mod
This soul is like a lady who is not crying because of pain or any other sorrow, but it is crying that there is a curtain which is not allowing it to witness the Brahma. The moment this curtain is removed, at that very moment it get illuminated. Birds starts chirping, flowers blossom and the complete world around her changes. It appears that something very important has occurred around her. Even though yesterday was just like today, however there is a significant difference between these two days. I meant nothing to anyone till yesterday, however today I belong to someone….and it is not that I just belong to someone, I have placed someone in my heart today, I removed the curtain that prevailed in between my heart and my soul.
Akhiyan Ki Kari Kothari, Putali Palang
Bichaaye, Palkan Ki Chik Daari Ke,
Piyu Ko Liya Rijhaaya, Naa Main
Dekhoon Aur Ko, Naa Tohe Dekhan
Dehu
I have created a room within my eyes and I have placed my pupil as the bed because I have to offer Him a seat. Also as I don’t want anyone to see him, I have transformed my eyelids into curtains. “Piyu Ki Liya Rijhaaya” means that I am trying to attract my Lord, my Guru in some way but I don’t know the correct way how to attract Him. All I know is that I can offer Him a seat in my eyes and close my eyelids. The reason why I wish to close my eyes is “Naa Main Dekhoon Aur Ko, Naa Tohe Dekhan Dehu” i.e. the moment I will close my eyes, I will not be able to see anyone else than You and even you will not be able to see anyone else.
Kabir is explicitly saying this that “Prem Gali Ati Sankari”…..this street of love is very narrow. Here both I and He can’t reside together, ego and love both can’t reside together. Here either you can live or your ego can live or your beauty can live or your lover can live. If you are proud that you are young, you are beautiful, you possess some talent, some strength, than that can’t get transformed into love. You need to abolish your existence and for that you need to remove the curtains from your heart.
Everyone can’t run the way to love. Only that person can love who has an open heart, who knows how to open someone’s heart. Stones can’t love, walls can’t love, dead people can’t love, and alive-dead people like you can’t love because you people don’t realize the meaning of love. The moment I speak out this word, you people start making strange faces, your forehead shrinks, your eyes contracts as if what have I said and it appears as if a scorpion has just stung you. As per you all, love means as if the entire world has gone through a tornado, as if a lot has went wrong, as if everything is ruined…..where there is such narrow mindedness, love can’t flourish there. Guru need a complete empty space, a blossomed lotus from which fragrance of love is coming out….and if there is no fragrance, then no butterfly will dance over it, clouds will not cover the sky, raindrops will not fall and this complete body and soul will not get wet in it. For all this it is necessary that love should germinate in your heart, for this it is important that a spark should generate in your life.
This germination, this spark can happen if we try to give a special place to someone in our heart. We should amalgamate, we should completely immerse ourselves and we should love. There is no feeling to attain something….love does not know of attaining something…it just knows one thing and that is to give all that you have, even your identity. Where there is selfishness, where there is a feeling of collecting something, love can’t stay there, it will die.
Brain teaches us to collect things and the more a person collects, the more narrow minded he becomes, the more worse he becomes, he restricts himself to one place and such a restricted person is just like a dead dried tree, where no new buds can come, no matter how much rain drains it, small green leaves will not come out of it, no birds can sit and sing on it, cuckoo can’t sing on such a tree. The reason for that is it is dead and it is dead because of its own brain because from outside it is still alive and this external life is telling him to collect what all and by whatever means he can. Your brain is in deep love with money and the more you collect the money, the more you think how to protect that. And the more you do such activities, the more you get far away from the love.
Your beauty, your youth is something that is not to be stored, because if a beautiful rose is stored then it will wilt and will fall. For a rose to blossom properly, it is necessary that drizzles of rain drops fall on it and it should get wet in that drizzling…..and when the flower blossoms, it is necessary to listen to its song. Whenever the heart becomes pious, the love seed should be germinated at that very instance and whenever this love germinates in the heart, this whole body and soul gets immersed in elixir of joy. The person realizes that someone is mine who is always immersed in my thoughts. If she drinks water, it appears as if she is serving water to her beloved, if she eats, it appears as if she is serving food to her, I am nothing and I don’t have anyone else in my life apart from my beloved.
Meera Tu Ka Dekhiyo, Tu Chanchal
Chit Chor, Kaaoon Piyoon, Naachoon
Aur Maan Karoon Tohi Oor.
Meera is saying that – What am I doing? I don’t do anything, you resides within me and you are making me to dance and I am in such a pious state which only I can feel and enjoy.
Rose flowers are all around me, a special joy is all around me because you are within me, because seed of love has germinated in my heart…..and whosoever is blessed with love does not care for this world then. For him mother, father, brother or sister does not mean anything. No one can stop the river and if the river stalls, then it can’t be a river. Love can’t be stopped, to meet the lover and to see him is the only aim of love. One which dries in between can’t be called as river and if the person traversing on this path stops in between then his life can’t be considered as a life.
The Vedas has termed the rhythm of love as the ‘rhythm of life’ and when this rhythm becomes the essence of life then only the seed of love germinates in the heart. When we belong to someone, when someone remembers us, when we are lost in someone’s eyes, when we are lost in someone’s thought….and such incident occurs only with the blessed ones but not with the cowards. What’s the use of that life that doesn’t know the way to give? What’s the use of that life where there is no rhythm in our heart? What’s the use of that life when we fail to make someone ours?
And for making someone your own, it is necessary to first kill your existence because the river destroys its identity in the ocean and considers itself to be blessed by becoming a part of it. The oceans stands with its arms wide opened…river comes with its full flow…bearing various tortures from the mountains…running continuously…..without stopping in between….various stones and rocks comes in her path but either it removes it with its flow or creates a path by cutting those rocks, if villages comes in her path, she destroys the entire village.
This society tries to control the river within its shores but it breaks all the shackles and runs continuously…to meet her beloved…and the moment it meets with the oceans, gets immersed in the ocean, it becomes quiet….its waves starts to sing in a rhythm and this rhythm is called “Brahmaanand”.
I bless you all that may seed of love germinate in your heart, may you all lose your identity and fell in deep love of your Guru and may you all get immersed in the elixir of joy. I bless you all again from the depth of my heart.
SadGuruDev Kailash Ch. Shrimali Ji
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